Research in psychology and aesthetics reveals that the flowers we’re drawn to, their colours, shapes, and forms, often connect with our moods, personalities, and emotions. Beyond the joy they bring to the eye, both modern studies and the old tradition of “floriography” (the language of flowers) suggest that our favourite blooms can offer subtle clues about who we are.
In light of this, the flower and plant experts at Beards & Daisies have put together a study on what your favourite flower says about you.
Colour, Shape and Beauty: Universal Preferences
A large survey in the Czech Republic asked over 2,000 people to rate the beauty of 52 flowers differing in shape, colour, symmetry, and complexity. The study found that:
- Blue flowers were rated most beautiful, followed by purple and pink. Yellow flowers ranked lower in comparison.
- Shape mattered more than colour: prototypical, radially symmetrical flowers with moderate complexity (not overly simple or overly intricate) were preferred.
Flower Colour and Mood / Well-Being
A UK study of 670 residents explored how different flower colours (using daisy-like digital images) influenced emotional states. Key results:
- Blue and white flowers were considered most relaxing.
- Orange, yellow, red (warm colours) were perceived as most uplifting.
- Individuals’ favourite colours tended to amplify the restorative or mood effects of flowers. In other words, if someone particularly likes purple, purple flowers may give extra emotional benefit for them even if the general population doesn’t rank purple as especially relaxing or stimulating.
Personality & Flower Symbolism: Traditional Associations
Jo Lambell, founder of Beards & Daisies, notes that beyond modern research, there’s a long tradition of floriography, the ‘language of flowers’, and centuries of cultural writing that connects blooms with personality traits. Though many of these links stem from folklore rather than science, they’ve stood the test of time and continue to shape how we interpret our favourite flowers. For instance:
- Rose lovers are frequently described as romantic, passionate, valuing tradition, beauty, and deep emotional connections.
- Sunflower preferences are often linked with being happy and having optimism, cheerfulness, warmth, and being sociable.
- Flowers such as lilies, tulips, daisies, and orchids are often linked with distinct qualities in these traditions: lilies with serenity and dignity; tulips with adaptability, beauty, and communication; daisies with innocence and loyalty; and orchids with sophistication and mystery.
What Your Favourite Flowers Say About You
Blue and Purple Flowers – Think hydrangeas, violets, or lavender. If these calming hues are your go-to, you may value peace, reflection, and emotional depth. People who love these shades often appreciate subtle beauty and prefer soothing spaces over busy, overstimulating ones.
Warm, Bright Flowers – Sunflowers, marigolds, and bright red or orange blossoms speak of warmth and energy. Fans of these blooms are often outgoing, optimistic, and full of life – natural mood-boosters who thrive on connection and love bringing positivity to others.
Classic, Symmetrical Flowers – Roses, daisies, and tulips, with their timeless shapes, often appeal to those who value harmony, balance, and tradition. If these are your favourites, you may be drawn to familiar patterns, order, and classic forms of beauty.
Exotic or Unusual Blooms – From orchids to tropical flowers, the more distinctive and rare the blossom, the more it tends to attract creative, individualistic personalities. If these flowers appeal to you, chances are you enjoy standing out, exploring new experiences, and adding a touch of mystery to your self-expression.
White and Pastel Flowers – Lilies, pale roses, or soft pink blooms often reflect sincerity and gentleness. Those who love these delicate shades may prize honesty, integrity, and subtle elegance. Rather than chasing bold statements, you might find beauty in grace and understatement.
